"Have One Week, Will Relax" Your 7 days program to Stress management

They say there's more than one way to skin a cat. The same goes when you start tearing your hair out with all the frustration, grief, anxiety, and yes, stress. It's a state of mental conditioning that is like taking that bitter pill down your throat, causing you to lose your sense of self, and worse your sanity. Just thinking about it can drive anyone off the edge.

And they say that the proactive ones are already living off the edge.

As one stressed-out person to another, I know how it feels, and believe me there are many variants when it comes to stress. Coping with life, and carrying the problems that may or may not belong to you can scratch away the little joy and happiness that you can carry once you head out that door. You can't blame them for being like that; they have their own reasons, so much like we have our reasons to allow stress to weigh us down. They say that stress is all in the mind, well, what's bugging you anyway?

There are several ways to manage stress, and eventually remove it out of your life one of these days. So I'll try to divide it into a seven-day course for you and I promise it's not going to be too taxing on the body, as well as on the mind.

1. Acknowledge stress is good
Make stress your friend! Based on the body's natural "fight or flight" response, that burst of energy will enhance your performance at the right moment. I've yet to see a top sportsman totally relaxed before a big competition. Use stress wisely to push yourself that little bit harder when it counts most.

2. Avoid stress sneezers
Stressed people sneeze stress germs indiscriminately and before you know it, you are infected too!

Protect yourself by recognizing stress in others and limiting your contact with them. Or if you've got the inclination, play stress doctor and teach them how to better manage themselves.

3. Learn from the best
When people around are losing their head, who keeps calm? What are they doing differently? What is their attitude? What language do they use? Are they trained and experienced?
Figure it out from afar or sit them down for a chat. Learn from the best stress managers and copy what they do.

4. Practice socially acceptable heavy breathing
This is something I've learned from a gym instructor: You can trick your body into relaxing by using heavy breathing. Breathe in slowly for a count of 7 then breathe out for a count of 11. Repeat the 7-11 breathing until your heart rate slows down, your sweaty palms dry off and things start to feel more normal.

5. Give stressy thoughts the red light
It is possible to tangle yourself up in a stress knot all by yourself. "If this happens, then that might happen and then we're all up the creek!" Most of these things never happen, so why waste all that energy worrying needlessly?

Give stress thought-trains the red light and stop them in their tracks. Okay so it might go wrong - how likely is that, and what can you do to prevent it?

6. Know your trigger points and hot spots
Presentations, interviews, meetings, giving difficult feedback, tight deadlines…. My heart rate is cranking up just writing these down!

Make your own list of stress trigger points or hot spots. Be specific. Is it only presentations to a certain audience that get you worked up? Does one project cause more stress than another? Did you drink too much coffee?

Knowing what causes you stress is powerful information, as you can take action to make it less stressful. Do you need to learn some new skills? Do you need extra resources? Do you need to switch to decaf?

7. Burn the candle at one end
Lack of sleep, poor diet and no exercise wreaks havoc on our body and mind. Kind of obvious, but worth mentioning as it's often ignored as a stress management technique. Listen to your mother and don't burn the candle at both ends!

So having stress can be a total drag, but that should not hinder us to find the inner peace of mind that we have wanted for a long time. In any case, one could always go to the Bahamas and bask under the summer sun.

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Guide To Healthy Living, Fuller Life: Make Positive Change In The Things Of Life!

Life expectancy of Americans has increased dramatically over the last century. Now we can expect to live 77 years, who has 30 years longer than previously. Taking care of our bodies, we could easily live a long and healthy life.

People live longer

There are more people in the United States over 100 years than ever before, around about 50,000. Since these people are not related, they have different genes. Some thought it was an important factor in longevity, but it only plays a small role. Other factors that play an important role in our lives are the environment, employment, exercise, family relationships, social relationships and emotional health. Of course, living longer does not always mean being healthy and happy.

Make positive changes in life

There are no pills that make us live longer, or treatments that are guaranteed. For many people, how the body ages is their perogative. There are practical steps you can take to feel better and live longer. Aging with dignity is not a matter of luck - you must work to stay healthy! You should be motivated to take these steps and be consistent.

Many times people wait until they are past middle age and have a health crisis before any action is taken to ensure a healthier life. For some, this is too late. Others may benefit from a radical change, and give you the opportunity to enjoy the golden years. Alternative medicines are available to help fight against many common diseases.

Practical measures for all

Doctors have told us for years to get out and move. Overall we are not getting enough exercise because of the high technology and improvements in all aspects of work. For better health, it is recommended to have 30 minutes of exercise a day. This helps to many health problems such as keeping weight down and strengthening the heart and other muscles in the body. If you do not practice alone, ask a friend to walk or go to the gym with you.

Eating the right combination of food, fiber, low fat fruit and vegetables is a big factor in communities and areas in our world, where there are people who will live longer. Do not smoke or quit smoking if you want to prevent diseases caused by tobacco. Drink plenty of water and less soft drinks or alcohol.

The mental and emotional health contributes to overall health as well. People with large families or social contact do not have much time to feel lonely or desperate. Others spend their time volunteering somewhere or providing a service where they feel useful and productive. Someone who is always looking for new things to learn can be active and more likely to engage in life. People with a sense of accomplishment and purpose are generally healthier and happier.

Be in good health now

Watch for signs of health problems. If you have a problem, go to the doctor and get checked out. If you let go of something that will give you less chance of returning to good health. Have regular checkups so things can be treated as soon as possible. Begin to change your habits now - do not hesitate. If you are overweight, change your diet. If you do not get any exercise, you need to start now.

If you have a health problem, consult a doctor and get treatment. If you are alone and lonely, discover a new way to meet and help people. If you have bad habits begin to change them today. One day you may be able to join other 100 plus older folks as they enjoy a long and healthy life and fulfilling!